I make the traditional one and one unusual one every year. How am I supposed to remember which one that is? So I call my sister. Turns out it's the one with dates, apricots and ginger. Ok.
On a whim, I ask Avivah via text message (pop-quiz time!)...
Me: OMG funniest thing ever. Aunt Julie wants me to make the "YUMMY" charoset this year. Which one is THAT?!
V: The Apricot one!
Me: How the hell did you know that???
V: Mind control?
And so it goes.